It can be tricky, not knowing when you're done with something or someone. I know I've dragged things on for the wrong reasons, other times I've walked away not knowing whether I was smart to leave or a coward for quitting. I've prayed for an epiphany, a divine intervention, or at the very least, a supernatural neon sign blinking as brightly like one over a cheap Vegas motel. If only there was a way to be sure. There isn't. Yeah, you get lucky every now and then, but I can't rely on that. So I … [Read more...]
To You Who Wants More Energy (Because You Don’t Have Time)
I once read that we humans are so invested in making the “right” decision that even if we find we don’t like the path we have chosen, we hang in there for dear life. That’s how much we don’t like change, and resist it as much as possible. I found myself reading it a few times to let the meaning sink in, and because I like to be right as often as I can (okay, always). The author of that line, Susan Jeffers, continued on to bring up a good point - if something is not “right” anymore, there … [Read more...]