You're supposed to be the hero of your life. But how often do you play the villain instead? I've done it more than I'd care to admit, and needless to say, it totally messes up how I want the story to go. Here's the spoiler: If I tackle a challenge or things don't go the way I want, instead of grabbing my hero cape or wand or stylish-yet-comfortable black boots, I hold the door wide open to fear and self-doubt. This twofer villain waltzes right in and gets to work, attacking confidence … [Read more...]